Tuesday, August 26, 2008

"love is blind" says the pot calling the kettle black.


i have to say i've been pretty surprised at the decisions people make given their life experiences. my friend who is a divorcee has made a very poor decision when it came to love. for some reason, i had great faith that she had learned from her failed marriage so that she may never repeat her mistakes again or at least learn from them. but the lesson i've learned is that love seems to make you blind or maybe just plain stupid. is that the same thing? i think people get into trouble when they have high expectations or are too hopeful and these expectations and hope cloud their judgment and reality, for that matter. that's what happened with k. but it's so hard to take a chance at love and not be hopeful and expect the best. and a similar thing happened to Tigress with the lawyer. especially with being emotional creatures as women, we're really at a disadvantage. i know that if i was single, i would fall into the same trap, even after the insight i gained from watching my friends make mistakes i never want to make...again. i guess i'm just the pot calling the kettle black.

if love is blind, women need to learn to remove their blindfolds.

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